Neutrality

In the intuitive development classes I teach, I talk a lot about neutrality and being neutral when doing energy healings, massage or just in life in general.  Apart from being unattached to outcomes or not being emotionally triggered, I got to thinking, "What is it really?  What do I mean when I say that?"

What came to me was that neutrality is being in alignment with your Higher Self and in essence, with Spirit.  It can be challenging not only to connect with your Higher Self, but to stay connected to it.  We can be connected one minute and in the next minute something may trigger us and then we're disconnected from it.   Then it's just about getting back to that connection again and again.  The more you return to that connection the easier it becomes in finding it and staying there.

Once connected, for me, I really notice that I'm more of an observer with minor roles here and there.  My clarity is greatly increased and therefore can see why things are happening as they are.  (I usually notice this more when I'm driving!)  Noticing what is driving people (no pun intended) becomes more obvious.  I also notice this a lot when participating in conversations with others.  Noticing these things within yourself too becomes clearer.  The nature of previous relationships or friendships become blatantly obvious where you scratch your head in amazement, "Why didn't I notice that before?"

Where do I need to be to be neutral?  My 6th chakra?  My heart?  My 2nd chakra?  I've read and heard different theories.  I initially learned to be in my 6th and then started practicing being in my heart.  So far both have worked well.  I'm sure this, like everything else, will keep evolving.